Can I improve on my technique?

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Dear Bunmi,

Afewyearsago,Iwasinmy first serious relationship. Although I loved my partner, I was too tense during the physical side of love-making.

I am currently involved with a nice and considerate man, and sex will definitely be on the menu. I don’t want to ask my new love to teach me the techniques of good sex. Do you have tips on how to improve my technique in bed?


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Chidinma, by e-mail. Dear Chidinma, Ordinarily, a lover who cares for you would be delighted to teach you how to have sex, and he’d find it a real turn- ontobetheonetogiveyou real pleasure. But if you want to raise your game before hand, then try these tips a sexual expert recommends.

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Get a full-length mirror and look at yourself all over

naked. Regularly massage yourself again, all over. And really learn to relax into your pleasurable sensations. Invest in a vibrator and master the art of making it work for you. Practise giving yourself different sensations.

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Teach your new partner to give you the pleasure you give yourself. And, remember, sex should be fun. Use your imagination, flirt, tease, enjoy each other.

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